The chasm ran deeper than politics. For Molly McNearney, co-head writer and executive producer ofJimmy Kimmel Live!, it fractured family. Her husband, Jimmy Kimmel, became a frequent target of Donald Trump’s ire, and that public battle exacted a deeply personal toll.
McNearney revealed on a recent podcast that supporting Trump meant, to her, a rejection of her own family – of Kimmel and the life they’d built together. The realization led to the heartbreaking loss of relationships with relatives she once held close.
Her journey from a conservative upbringing in St. Louis to a staunch Democratic supporter began with exposure. Moving beyond her hometown and encountering diverse perspectives fundamentally shifted her worldview. She now finds herself grappling with the deliberate misinformation embraced by some family members.
The constant conflict weighs heavily on her. It’s a perpetual state of anger, fueled by the feeling that her relatives actively supported a figure she believes harms the country. She described sending desperate emails before elections, pleading with family to reconsider, only to be met with silence or hostile responses.
Ironically, the fallout has strengthened bonds with family members who share her convictions. While she mourns the fractured relationships, she’s found solace and alignment with those who view Trump as a dangerous force. It’s a painful trade-off, a stark reminder that values, not just politics, were at stake.
The animosity between Kimmel and Trump didn’t erupt overnight. It simmered for years, beginning with Kimmel’s pointed critiques of Trump’s policies, particularly his attempts to dismantle the Affordable Care Act and his response to gun violence.
Trump, in turn, repeatedly demanded Kimmel’s cancellation and publicly attacked his talent. The feud escalated to the point where Trump reportedly pressured ABC and Disney to silence the comedian, even during Kimmel’s hosting gig at the Oscars.
The conflict took a bizarre turn following the cancellation of Stephen Colbert’s show, with Trump gleefully celebrating the news and predicting Kimmel would be next. He accused Colbert of lacking talent and Kimmel of having even less.
A brief suspension of Kimmel after controversial remarks following the death of a conservative activist briefly pleased Trump, who quickly reversed course when Kimmel returned to the air. Trump unleashed another barrage of insults, claiming Kimmel’s ratings were nonexistent and his talent a myth.
At a memorial service, Trump even explicitly stated his disdain for his opponents, contrasting himself with the deceased activist who, according to Trump, “wanted the best” for everyone. Trump’s words underscored the deeply personal and vitriolic nature of the feud, a battle fought not just on television, but within the fabric of families and relationships.