For over two decades, a peculiar phenomenon has shadowed the glittering world of *Strictly Come Dancing* – a whispered possibility of romance blossoming amidst the sequins and rehearsals, known simply as the ‘Strictly curse.’ It’s a tale of intense partnerships, stolen glances, and relationships unexpectedly reshaped by the demanding, intoxicating energy of the ballroom.
The curse isn’t merely about finding new love; it’s about existing relationships tested and sometimes broken by the close proximity and emotional vulnerability inherent in the competition. It’s a story of individuals already committed finding themselves drawn to their dance partners, a whirlwind of passion and performance that can alter the course of their lives.
One of the most talked-about instances unfolded in 2018 with comedian Seann Walsh and professional dancer Katya Jones. A photograph surfaced, igniting a firestorm of controversy as it depicted a kiss between the pair. Katya was married to fellow dancer Neil Jones, and Seann was in a long-term relationship. The fallout was swift and painful, leading to the end of both couples.
That same year, another *Strictly* romance captivated the nation: Stacey Dooley and Kevin Clifton. While Stacey was initially with someone else, a connection with Kevin blossomed after the show concluded. They later confirmed their relationship and now share a daughter, Minnie, though Stacey maintains the romance didn’t ignite *during* the competition.
The ripple effect continued with Joe Sugg and Dianne Buswell. Dianne ended her relationship while partnered with Joe, and the pair eventually became a couple, now expecting a child together. It’s a pattern that began early in the show’s history, with Brendan Cole’s relationship ending during the first series while partnered with Natasha Kaplinsky.
In 2013, rugby player Ben Cohen’s marriage dissolved following his *Strictly* appearance, and he subsequently found love with his partner, Kristina Rihanoff. They are now engaged with a daughter together. Kristina’s journey continued, having previously been in a four-year relationship with Joe Calzaghe after he ended his own long-term relationship shortly after joining the show.
The stories aren’t always dramatic breakups. Sometimes, the connection is acknowledged long after the final dance. John Whaite, winner of *The Great British Bake Off*, confessed to falling in love with his *Strictly* partner Johannes Radebe, a revelation shared in his memoir. While their connection didn’t become romantic, it was a powerful and transformative experience.
However, the narrative isn’t solely one of disruption. In a refreshing twist, Tyler West and Molly Rainford, both contestants in 2022, rebranded the “curse” as a “blessing,” finding love with each other despite being paired with different professional dancers. They are now engaged, proving that *Strictly* can indeed lead to lasting happiness.
Gemma Atkinson and Gorka Marquez offer another heartwarming example. They connected during the 2017 series, and their relationship has flourished, resulting in an engagement and two children. Their story demonstrates that amidst the intensity of the competition, genuine and enduring love can truly blossom.
The ‘Strictly curse’ remains a captivating element of the show’s enduring appeal. It’s a reminder that the intense emotional and physical connection forged on the dance floor can have profound and unexpected consequences, transforming lives and rewriting romantic destinies.
