A grandmother from Washington, D.C., carrying the weight of unimaginable loss, stepped forward during a White House Black History Month celebration and delivered an unexpected, impassioned defense of the President. Forlesia Cook’s life shattered in 2017 when her grandson, Marty William McMillan Jr., was tragically taken by gun violence at just 22 years old.
Cook has transformed her grief into advocacy, bravely sharing her story and even testifying before Congress about the devastating impact of her grandson’s murder. Invited by the President to speak at the event, she seized the opportunity not to recount her sorrow, but to fiercely protect a leader she believes in.
Her voice resonated with conviction as she implored critics to cease their attacks. “I love him, I don't want to hear nothing you got to say about that racist stuff,” she declared, her words cutting through the room. She challenged anyone who would judge her for her support, stating she wouldn’t tolerate negativity towards someone she felt deserved respect.
Cook’s intensity grew with each sentence, her plea becoming a powerful demand. “Get off the man’s back,” she urged, “Let him do his job. He’s doing the right thing. Back up off him.” The room hung on her every word, captivated by the raw emotion and unwavering conviction in her voice.
Concluding her remarks with a simple, yet impactful statement, she proclaimed, “And grandma said it.” The East Room erupted in a wave of applause and cheers, a testament to the power of her words and the courage of her conviction.
The President visibly appreciated the support, responding with a lighthearted suggestion. “Wow, that’s pretty good,” he remarked, then playfully asked, “When is she running for office? Forlesia, when are you running for office? You have my endorsement.”
Cook also expressed her gratitude for the President’s actions, specifically mentioning the deployment of the National Guard and praising his firm stance on law and order. She connected with his directness, stating, “One thing I like about him, he keeps it real, just like grandma,” and emphasized her trust in his leadership.
The event also included a moment of reflection on the recent passing of Reverend Jesse Jackson. The President acknowledged Jackson as “a piece of work,” but ultimately praised him as “a good man,” a “real hero” possessing “grit and street smarts.”
During the celebration, the President announced that former Housing and Urban Development Secretary Ben Carson would be awarded the Presidential Medal of Freedom, recognizing his contributions and service to the nation.
